Monday, May 9, 2016

No more running or hiding.

So I came as myself rather than a gimmick. There is a man that slandered me for years who used to be my high school/middle school friend but he showed his true colors to everyone close to him and of this world. He continued to call me names and called good evil. He claims to know me with those blog posts he writes about me, but he is not close, nowhere near close! But as God has commanded it, I forgive him. He does not know God so he does not have any real love in his heart. But if I join in with his pointless and vile bickering, I am no better than him.  God is in control. Once again, this man does not know me at all! If you come across his blogs, I would tell you to not believe it like a normal human being would, but I can't force any of you who know me or those who come across this blog to listen to this or that. It's all you.




Go to this site: This man has pretty done everyone of these and whomever is reading, try to not fall into this category. Things don't look pretty if you met God dying doing these.

https://www.openbible.info/topics/slander

I will confess that I used to put hate and blame on others several years ago, but once again God has come through for me and showed me a better path, and if you attack me because of my past, then you really don't know me now or at all. And if that is the case, how can you claim you know what I practice and what I preach? This man bases off things that isn't even up to date. I have not seen him show any compassion or remorse for what he has done or said. He is very quick to judge and anger. Overall, this man needs prayers and as much as I dislike him for his dishonesty and lies he writes about me, my friends, and other people, it wouldn't be love if I don't pray for this man.

I understand we have to fight sometimes but when a man speaks evil of forgiveness and continues on his downward path after being warned:

A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends. (KJV, Proverbs 16:28).

 It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling. (KJV, Proverbs 20:3)


I pray that this is the last time I have to talk about this guy unless he repents and turns over a new leaf to the lord. Sadly, he ripped on one of my friends not too long ago for just asking a simple question.

So like Jesus said: "Then saith he unto his disciples, The harvest truly is plenteous, but the labourers are few; Matthew 9:37

Lots of work needs to be done. I'm not perfect so don't think of me as the greatest saint that ever lived or something like that. Just a guy trying to obey the lord and struggles in doing so. No matter what, i will not sink into that ex-friend in what he had become. I had a hard time forgiving this man, but continuing to walk with God, though it is no easy task, allowed me to cool myself and not take revenge against this person but it doesn't mean I have to trust him nor do I have to let him back into my life. Many people feel forgiveness means lumping trust with it, but it is not. In this case, forgiveness is recognizing what this person is doing and moving on and not looking back to enact revenge, but it also means you won't let this person hurt you again and sometimes, sadly, it means letting them go and don't put yourself in a situation that you be hurt by them over and over again. 

This site was originally tdawgspersonalblog.blogspot.com. I apologize for the sudden name change especially for those who were originally following that site. 

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